I find myself wondering why it's so difficult as a grown adult human to tell someone "just because you're their grandparent doesn't mean you're entitled to a hug if they don't want to give it." I'm trying to do better for my child, who deserves a better, safer world. And who deserves to never be touched against their will, as do we all. Thank you for spreading the message!
Grandparents can be particularly challenging ~ they come from a place of big love...and we want to give our elders respect-- but unwanted hugs or affection w/o consent does not equal respect.
I find myself wondering why it's so difficult as a grown adult human to tell someone "just because you're their grandparent doesn't mean you're entitled to a hug if they don't want to give it." I'm trying to do better for my child, who deserves a better, safer world. And who deserves to never be touched against their will, as do we all. Thank you for spreading the message!
Grandparents can be particularly challenging ~ they come from a place of big love...and we want to give our elders respect-- but unwanted hugs or affection w/o consent does not equal respect.